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Is Masturbation a sin? Is it wrong?  |  Christian Worldview

Is Masturbation a sin? Is it wrong? | Christian Worldview


Is Masturbation a sin? Is masturbation mistaken? How will we tackle this coming from a Christian Worldview? We must get higher within the church world addressing these powerful dialog I feel it’s crucial that we tackle masturbation because it is a matter that not solely adults (women and men) however our youngsters (once more women and men) want to know. We are ALL fighting subjects like masturbation, pornography, intercourse, and so on in our fashionable sexualized tradition right now. This dialogue is definitely half of a bigger umbrella which is how we get a Christian Worldview of wholesome sexuality or what I usually name a Christian sexual ethic. How you view, masturbation is definitely below a larger context of the way you take into account all subjects from intercourse, pornography, relationship, and likewise masturbation amongst others. I plan to take and suggestions from this video and do a followup video at one other time. *As Christians we will have differing opinions on points and nonetheless be brothers and sisters in Christ. Below are the principle ideas from the two giant lists within the video: If we select to land on the masturbation is okay so long as we don’t lust we should take into accounts these ideas: 1. What sort of intimacy is gained being by yourself and masturbating? 2. Does masturbation perpetuate the lie that intercourse is one thing solely about me? 3. Does it enhance a want for self-gratification? 4. If I’m married and I want this why are you not needing intimacy together with your partner as an alternative of by your self? 5. What is the rationale you might be masturbating? Lonely, confused, bored, ache, anxiousness, melancholy or others? 6. If this turns into an habit how will this have an effect on everybody 7. Does the idea of porn-induced erectile dysfunction additionally embody masturbation with out porn or lustful ideas? 8. Does this create isolation in my life? 9. Can you truly masturbate with out lusting? 10. Are you turning into you turning into obsessive about masturbation? No matter the place we land on the difficulty of masturbation we’ll: 1. We purpose for a contented, sexually fulfilling marriage. 2. We will work laborious to develop in our religion by way of day by day religious disciplines. 3. We will purpose to not set ourselves up for on-line sexual temptation by having web filters 4. We may have accountability for what we watch on-line. 5. We is not going to put sexualized music, TV, and films into our life 6. When we do fail we’ll try to determine if there have been any elements that might have set us up for failure? 7. We will make certain we cope with unresolved traumas, previous experiences, and ache in our life which may make us search for some reduction from these pains in pornography/masturbation 8. If we fail we is not going to make this failure spiral into different failures. 9. Less time alone. More alone time could also be unhealthy for folks wrestle with porn/masturbation Articles / Blogs used on this speak: 1. http://www.overcoming-lust.com/httpwww-overcoming-lust-comdr-james-dobsons-open-letter-masturbation/ 2. http://youthministryunleashed.com/talking-teens-secret-habit/ 3. https://www.macleans.ca/normal/a-good-day-for-erectile-dysfunction/ 4. https://www.challies.com/articles/self-centered-sex-part-2/ 5. https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/ – his e-book is off of this hyperlink as nicely. Other articles / blogs on this dialogue – if I’m lacking nay let me know and I’ll add them to this listing. – https://www.authenticintimacy.com/assets/6962/masturbation-is-it-wrong – http://www.overcoming-lust.com/httpwww-overcoming-lust-comdr-james-dobsons-open-letter-masturbation/ – https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/weblog/understanding-the-erotic-code/201805/the-masturbation-challenge – https://relevantmagazine.com/life/relationship/options/1605-is-masturbation-sin – https://relevantmagazine.com/life/relationship/options/17534-is-masturbation-sin-a-follow-up – https://www.christianitytoday.com/girls/2016/february/what-could-possibly-be-wrong-with-christian-masturbation.html – https://www.christianitytoday.com/girls/2016/february/what-could-possibly-be-wrong-with-christian-masturbation.html – https://biblicalcounselingcoalition.org/2011/05/25/so-what-about-masturbation/ – https://www.convergemagazine.com/christians-and-masturbation/ – https://rachelheldevans.com/weblog/christians-masturbation – https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/missions-and-masturbation – https://carm.org/is-masturbation-wrong – https://carm.org/is-masturbation-wrong Other talks on Vimeo on Demand (Rent or purchase) (1) Mental Health Talk (The Walking Wounded) – https://vimeo.com/ondemand/brettullman (2) Dating.for.life: the questions *new speak* – https://vimeo.com/ondemand/datingforlife (3) The Porn Project – https://vimeo.com/ondemand/thepornpro… (4) The Sex Talk – https://vimeo.com/ondemand/thesextalk Where to search out me on Social Media: Facebook: https://www.fb.com/brett.ullman Twitter: https://twitter.com/brettullman Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/brettullman/
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41 COMMENTS

Brett Ullman - posted on January 10, 2019 1:02 pm

Love to hear any comments on this topic. Thanks

James Corsey - posted on August 6, 2019 6:24 pm

I look at so many woman walking i lust too much i need help

R Z - posted on August 7, 2019 12:13 am

I think it’s different for a man who has erectile dysfunction because of a porn addiction, and a man or woman that uses masturbation once in a while because they’re in multiple seasons of singledom. Especially for single parents that can’t date.

Samuel Stahl - posted on August 10, 2019 5:02 am

I have been struggling with this for a while. Lately I have been doubting God and I don't know where I fit in as a Christian. I grew up in a Christian home, but I still don't think that I quite understand what a Christian is or how to be a good Christian. I want to be more than someone that just says I'm a Christian, but idk how. Please help me and pray for me..

Texan Brooke - posted on August 13, 2019 12:06 am

What really sucks is when you have been married and know what sex is like and how it feels. When you divorce, it is automatically taken from you. People who have never been divorced have no clue how bad a struggle it is to abstain from premarital sex. I can't help but feel it's a bit unfair ?, although I do understand this commandment. It's just hard to switch off your sex drive totally, especially when one has a higher sex drive ?

Kyle McDonald - posted on August 13, 2019 1:18 pm

Masturbation never did me any favors, no question it's wrong. My ex partner avoided sex, made me feel like sh%t. I started drinking more and masterbating, she started it, but I went really the wrong way. I believe if I would of asked the Holy Spirit earlier, I would of avoided all of this. But I am now, and after a year were getting slowly back together, sex is great, and I actually really love her unlike before. Hopefully this helps someone, maybe in the same boat.

Tony Rowan - posted on August 14, 2019 2:49 am

Yes I believe that masterbation is a sin! I believe it is harmful for your emotional and spiritual health. I believe it incites lust and impure thoughts. Finally I believe it accelerates depression! Enough said!

Samuel Castora - posted on August 16, 2019 12:11 am

All that I am is surrendered at the cross of Jesus my savior yup that includes my self pleasure all that I am with Jesus. Jesus helps me obey him my flesh could never obey God; we know our flesh fights against our spirit. I praise the Lord my spirit is one with the Holy Spirit who brings me into obedience. My sexual sin is large bisexuality, porn, masturbation, fornication, lust. At 40 I've never been married, but God heals from my backsliding Hosea 14:14, and God he marries me in my backsliding Jeremiah 3:14. I am not my sin I am Gods blood bought possession.

Thejoeordinary1 - posted on August 16, 2019 11:34 pm

Well I pray for forgiveness for all my sins…even sins I might not realize I am committing. As for the subject at..ahh..hand, 1st the habit itself is not mentioned in the Bible. The only time it can be remotely insinuated is in the story of Onan in which he spills his seed on the ground and is punished for it. He, however, did that during the activity of coitus interruptus, not a solo act. Many believe the sin there was not what he did but what he didn’t do…impregnate his widowed sister in law so her offspring could collect his brothers inheritance.Also, every sexual sin is clearly mentioned throughout the Bible, named unmistakably as to what it is, be it adulterous behavior, fornication, beastialitalty, etc…but no clear mention of masturbation. As for a possible reason for the urge, of course we know the obvious, the sensation it creates, but for a more important and useful role it has been medically proven that men who have frequent sex have fewer instances of prostate cancer. Another beniifit of a committed marriage, but what about men that for whatever the reason are not married. In this regard, it appears masturbation would act as a preemptive health measure. If it was a bad thing why would it have health inducing qualities? I know anything that appears as sexual activity outside of marriage or indicates a lack of self control is usually considered a bad thing or an off limits activity and one can certainly get addicted to such behavior and become a slave to it and that is most certainly a thing to be avoided and the lust issue is one to be guarded against as well. It’s somewhat like the drug issue in a way. One can take approved drugs for legitimate health benefits but then turn around and abuse those same drugs for recreational purpose. Just my humble opinion…I might be wrong.

tob ffutsmodnar - posted on August 17, 2019 3:56 am

It can prevent some cancer, besides that I want to understand why it was seen as bad? A myth? A dirty pleasure or something?

Michael Contreras - posted on August 17, 2019 7:19 pm

What does the Church say? The lord left us a church guided by the Holy Spirit until he returns. He didn’t lie. The one holy Catholic and apostolic Church has spoken on this for over 2000 years. It’s a mortal sin. No where in the Bible does it say everything you need to know is in the Bible. Ask the Church who gave us the bible

John Leyland - posted on August 18, 2019 12:51 pm

Of course it's a sin it's what goes through the mind at the time

John Leyland - posted on August 18, 2019 12:55 pm

I want to know if you can loose your salvation

xXGentpaXx - posted on August 19, 2019 4:55 pm

Will save people be judged by God

natasha granville - posted on August 20, 2019 3:32 pm

True. Porn can affect people.

John Leyland - posted on August 20, 2019 7:14 pm

It's not just young people its men and women of all ages

rudvin acosta - posted on August 21, 2019 4:14 am

does oral sex count as masturbation?

GalaxyPlayz - posted on August 21, 2019 5:05 am

So does that mean people who masturbate go to hell is that true?

Tan Maxwell 45 - posted on August 23, 2019 11:13 am

THE IDEAL: Marrying a Spirit-filled woman,that loves Christ more than she loves you -and wants to obey His Word in being a Christian submissive wife,who is willing to learn whatever is necessary to keep her husband sexually satisfied – to where he is not at all tempted to be unfaithful or watch porn on the internet. Every level headed guy wants to marry a woman like this.But there are still jerks around who prefer a trashy woman they can slap around and be unfaithful to. And there really are actually nutcase women that prefer a man like this. Pain freaks.

Tan Maxwell 45 - posted on August 23, 2019 11:22 am

Masturbation is wrong – just like adultery.homosexual sex,lesbian sex ,beastiality sex is wrong – for they all degrade you from the reason you were created.They turn you into a human animal. Mentally insane houses are full of them.

dee ar yata - posted on August 23, 2019 5:27 pm

God hates sin but he love the sinners.
Repent. . And ask God to guide you to overcome this evil temptation.

ravenwda007 - posted on August 23, 2019 9:16 pm

Only a sin to those who believe in sin. Religion poisons the mind.

TSM Myth - posted on August 25, 2019 10:35 pm

SO IS IT WRONG TO DO it BUT NOT WATCH PORN?

Bob Scruggs - posted on August 26, 2019 1:01 am

Guess I started at 13 had to maybe 3 times a week never had wet dreams so I had to pump it out or I couldn't walk it's called " Blue Balls "

Rickford Morningstar - posted on August 26, 2019 8:45 am

WHERE'S THE GUILT??? GOD SAID BE GUILTY!!! If mastication is ok, why not allow sussex between a man and a non-wife white churchgoer. (Obv you cant sussex a heathen). Mastemblation is a tool of SATAN to make good CATLICKS go straight to the down there fire hole (H*LL). I HAVE NEVER EVEN looked AT MY DECK, AND I WILL NEEEEEVER TOUCH IT until GOD does FIRST. THAT IS God must touch HIS BALLPEEN, not my BALLPEEN, that would be homoicicles. I am still unsure if the pergyno is evil, but i think so as my boyhood priest said to fear the yanni, and never tell

GnaReffotsirk - posted on August 26, 2019 4:34 pm

Doesn't this come from biological function? If so, when does sexual release become hurtful to the mind and body? Honest question.

Carmen Savu - posted on August 27, 2019 6:35 pm

Yeees, let's be dependent on another person to get sexual gratification. It's not like being relaxed because you know you can always get yourself off leads to better intimacy.
Instead of being "addicted" to masturbation, let's be addicted to the guilt cycle of Christianity. Yes, that makes a lot more sense. And of course Christianity wants to be your only addiction, to consume as much of your energy as possible. It's basically heroin getting pissed and jealous because I'm smoking a joint.

Mako Maniaco - posted on August 29, 2019 8:09 am

This really helped me and I'm glad I decided to get an opinion and some word of god. It gives me hope?

xXGamerboyXx - posted on August 29, 2019 11:25 pm

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Christopher O. - posted on September 5, 2019 2:31 am

You know what happens to a car that never gets driven? It slowly deteriorates and its performance capabilities diminish over time. Same thing with the male reproductive system. If you don't turn those gears and circulate those fluids once in a while, it's gonna be bad.

I've been a Christian since my teens, but I refuse to sacrifice my sexual and mental health over an abstract and outdated doctrine.

Jortiz - posted on September 8, 2019 8:38 am

Yes it is a sin, a bad one too. Just put it this way; did Emanuel or His disciples ever masturbated? The answer is No, they did not. So there is your answer. Easy.

Gleason Parker - posted on September 12, 2019 8:40 pm

Thanks for sharing….

Gleason Parker - posted on September 12, 2019 8:44 pm

Guilt is a real problem..

Jeffery Hall - posted on September 15, 2019 6:37 pm

My opinion of this video is one that you're not going to like. The issue with this particular subject is that a is not being talked about enough. The issue 2 with this particular subject is that we put so much emphasis on not doing it we actually are teaching people teenagers 20 year olds and 30 year olds who are still not married that they need to suppress there God getting sexual desires. And that causes a lot of problems if you suppress something for a long. Of time without it being used it could come back to bite you. I am in the middle and this conversation. I do not believe that a man should be doing it every single day or whatever he wants to do it. But if a guy can do it in a healthy way without lusting after a woman or watching p*** I am okay with it.

Cray Way - posted on September 20, 2019 2:02 am

Ohhh but these hands are treating me good.

JACK ANTHONY - posted on September 22, 2019 3:37 am

As the Old Testament states: "He who hath touched with his own hand his genitals out of lust so shall he have same hand cut off."

hwd71 - posted on September 22, 2019 7:11 am

The Biblical solution is simply to get married.

Something the Roman Catholic Church forbids in their own clergy.

This explains their high levels of sexual deviancy.

The Roman Catholic Church is behind the rise of same sex unions and openly support such abominations.

They also promote that single women achieve more.

This openly promotes the destruction of the family.

This leads to unnatural affection and going after strange flesh.

Come out from among this whore and be not partakers of her plagues or sins.

What fellowship has light with darkness, or God with belial?

leonard perry - posted on September 23, 2019 5:00 pm

I only have one problem with what you are saying. I have heard this all my life so I have a few questions. !. How do you put puberty on hold till you get married. 2. When you start burning should you run out and find the first woman or man if you are woman that will marry so you can releave yourself and stay within scripture though you don't really love the person or visa versa. 3. How do you help a person focus when they are burning. God gave puberty for a reason. So yes maybe masterbation is wrong. But God gives us a way to escape and man tries to put a damper on it by puting an age limit on it. To young. At a certain a child should be preparing for adult hood. The big teens. Mary Jesus mother was about 15 or 16yrs old. To old. Some people think after a certain age people should not be thinking about sex. Remember Abraham was having kids after he had Isaac at 100yrs old not retiring. Age gape. I don't think King David and King Solomon was marrying old bitties in their old age. So at a certain age we should be teaching our kids about family and life. So they can be ready at puberty. And maybe that will cut down on abortions and sex out of wedlock and also masterbation. Because the burn will be going in the right direction especially with a good family and good God family teaching headed up by prayer

Supreme TV - posted on September 27, 2019 6:05 pm

Don't we all as Christians lust over our lord and savior?

Princess Kate Ann Bendana - posted on September 30, 2019 10:25 am

thank you, it really helped me realized alott, been struggling

creeper58272 - posted on October 3, 2019 12:44 am

So no straight answer


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