How Do You Deal with Name Calling?
Alan Shlemon of Stand to Reason discusses how to react when a person calls you names in response to your beliefs.
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If still does not get to the fact that the person calling someone names is the problem and wasting everyones elses time talking to them.
This is a great video. Left wingers' biggest argument strat is to use name calling (transphobe, racist, etc) and it's juvenile and usually used when somebody has no real argument.
Name calling is childish,rude, shows how thick the perpetrator is, juvenile, and just so pathetic it's not worth worrying about. Just say hey can we have an adult conversation please or don't speak to me thank you. People who do this have a problem but it's not with you, it's with them. They may be jealous of you, envy you, if you're a bubbly fun zesty person. Want to be like you, even have your life style. The easiest way to hurt someone is name calling, it's low not adult behaviour at all. Bullys deflect there anger onto happy carefree people. They try to bring you down, well don't let them. They're feeling low and ignored angry with there life. Rise above shine bright, carry yourself with dignity and out shine them. Be the fabulous confident funny well liked person you are. They hate it if doesn't affect you 😂😂😂😂😂😆😆😆😆 best punishment. Xx
I can do whatever I want the system is breaking apart with or without me. So I’m not a parasite IM ENJOYING My life lizard
the lady I stay with she call me lier
Ever get called names when you get into conversations about Christianity? Here’s one way you can respond:
When I’m called a name, I simply ask them to define it: “What do you mean by [fill in the name]?” and then I listen carefully to their definition. This easy question is meant to move past the irrelevant name-calling and get to the argument. It also neutralizes their attack by demonstrating at least one of three things:
1. The definition doesn’t apply to me.
2. The definition also applies to the other person.
3 It doesn’t matter that the definition applies to me.
Read more in the following articles from Alan Shlemon:
Sticks and Stones
https://rsn.pub/3OfiNX0
Three reasons why you shouldn't let the label “phobic” bother you
https://rsn.pub/3u7d4vC
All kinds of Mexicans called me the n word and say my skin is dirty. I don't know why men always verbally abuse me when I don't do anything
My Disrespectful Nephew called me Stupid yesterday cuz he didn't have his way yesterday 😤
I’ve been getting bullied like crazy at school. I overheard someone calling me a “stupid ass” today, but I pretended I didn’t hear it. I didn’t even do anything for him to say that about me. I was just doing my math work.
Crying kids are whiny the Pooh
My old college friend called me a Nazi for saying I was happy about Roe being overturned at last. I have known that a child is a living feeling human before birth since I debated it in high school debate.
Names like stupid crazy and lazy hurt me the most.
Poor audio.
I don't react. Defuse situation. Then leave. Unless someone puts their hands on me. It's another.
The b word is not so cool
He's Satan lads???
He will do it back to you worse…
Wait until you get to hell…then you will know what it's all about???
So basically everytime I go outside kids call me names even in my front yard of my house other kids have the guts to call me names. I just can't go anywhere without getting made fun of and the worst part is I go to school I also have no escape there. I just wanna stop getting bullied
Name calling just means you value that person's opinion about you, if they aren't a family member or someone close to you like a dear friend, why the hell should it matter?? After all they don't have your best interest at heart💔.
My boyfriend calls me names and gets a whole aggression session ready for us, and I don't know how not to take it personally, so asking questions the way you just mentioned is fairly helpful
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I’m trying to figure out how to deal with being called a fat effing pig.
Thanks for the video. I am being called a name because I made mistakes and I'm not doing the right thing. So I said I will correct myself in those views but to me name calling because of what I stated why shouldn't be a thing. I said I'll ignore it because I know what I have to do the right way in order to correct myself.
People call me names at my elementary school and this video really helped 🙂
The worst part is people laughing at them saying it and getting embarrassed 😭😓😓
I have this friend that calls me stupid loser and fat as a "joke" and She really does not realize how this is effecting emotionally like it's not once or twice or I have done anything to be called that and I don't want to stop being friends with her but I want to tell her to but I don't know how because I don't want it to get bigger or anything .
I'm actually writing this while crying because I just hang up the phone while talking to her and of course she called me names of that is why I'm here in this video
i always go to a teacher!! my mum says to stop as i will get punched etc!
please help me!
The thing is the severe verbal bully i run into tend to call names because they don't want to know you are. Asking these questions only leads to more put-downs and illogical shaming. Not to mention the possibility of suspending silence with no eye contact after you ask for specification. And these "morons" refuse to get out of their little world to take back what they say. So I find Gunn's comment more useful.
For some reason this group of boys calls me lemon challenge and I don't understand they'll just be like shut up lemon challenge I'm like what!?
there were kids on Xbox taking badly about me saying they were calling Microsoft and I said I was getting off they said get of you VERY BAD WORD when I got off I started crying and now I'm really depressed and hate my life
Morning & no I was not calling u a tool!!! I asked if Ya knew wot was happening today with J & if I might be graced with your presence later😘
Great video. As Ravi says "intent is prior to content"..
Can we create a new term called Ad Hominemophobic?